Can anybody be a stalker?

Watch your back. Do you have someone who is sending Im:s immediately when u log in? Every time? Do you have someone who is monitoring you in several grids, mail, messenger and in other social medias? Who doesn´t listen or/and gets angry when u ask him/her to stop. Then you may have a stalker. And the stalker may not admit or even realise he or she is a stalker. They are more common than you think…

“Stalking is a form of mental assault, in which the perpetrator repeatedly, unwantedly, and disruptively breaks into the life-world of the victim, with whom they have no relationship (or no longer have). Moreover, the separated acts that make up the intrusion cannot by themselves cause the mental abuse, but do taken together (cumulative effect).” ~ wiki 

Lets return to my question “Can anybody be a stalker?” No i dont think so. Only personalities with obsessive compulsive behaviour are at risk here.

Pic from the beautyful region Luxembourgh in Second Life

7 Comments to “Can anybody be a stalker?”

  1. would that make me a stalker? O,o I do tend to pounce on friends! :(

  2. I’m sorry to say that i had several stalkers during my time in second life.

    One stalker was a woman woman I knew socially. She seemed normal to me and we became friends. She even counselled me when i broke up with my boyfriend. So we were that close. All she wanted to do was be my friend in real life, but I didn’t want that.

    She went to the extent of using personal information i gave her to identify me using Google. (I used have some newspaper articles about me — no, no, not a criminal. hahah) Anyway, she made a habit of asking me questions about my career and eventually narrowed her search down enough to get my telephone number.

    She called my home and i was stunned. This was fortunately someone who lived very far away from me, but I’ve stopped revealing any personal information. It was a lesson learned.

    • Creepy person ouschie!! >.< I worry a lot about younger ppl today who dont seem to realise the problems with RL ID on internet…and even if you think u are careful, some ppl just asks too much. Avoid them!

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