A quote has been flying around in the blog sphere for a while now, after it got published dec 26; ”Also – and few people want to admit this publicly – Second Life attracts ‘broken’ people. I don’t mean this as an insult in any way, as I am absolutely one of the broken ones. Second Life gives many of us very crucial things which are lacking in our own lives. For some, it’s the ability to socialize in ways that are difficult or impossible in real life.” Marx Dudek
She has written a great blog post, I just dont agree with that quote and I feel a need to break it down a bit. Its a common predudice I think and some people like to think its like that because of this anonymity for example. I´v met quite a lot of ppl in virtual worlds over the years and I think its a mirror of the real world. In the real world i know some seriously “broken people” who goes to art classes. So art classes attracts “broken people”? The truth is that “broken people” does a lot of things, including visiting virtual worlds and go to art classes. But no more no less than ordinary people.
Well this is to simplify too much to think its like that. The “broken people” I have met in virtual worlds gets the label “drama queens” and get known by that. The majority of people in virtual worlds are just ordinary people. And how many of us are “perfect” and have not “broken” in any way irl? But to say that a person who is rheumatic or has seasonal depresson is “broken”, I dont buy that. They are ordinary, less perfect people like everyone else in the real world and not more common in virtual worlds.
We can define the word “broken” in different ways. For me physically and mentally healthy persons who has a ordinary boring job, goes home and watch TV all evening and totally lacks of imagination and visions, are a lot more “broken” and unfortunate than any rheumatic or slightly depressed but brilliant creator or habitant in a virtual world. A lot of people in virtual worlds are also more social than the common populace and thats a feature. Instead of watching TV in silence they actually communicate with each other. I know dogs that have more imagination than the common human populace….
So quit talking about virtual worlds attracting “broken” and psychotic people. I think its just bullshit. People in virtual worlds may be a bit different than the general populace cos they have a greater imagination and most of them are a lot more clever. But I dont call them broken, I call them awesome <3